Friday, July 11, 2008

Friendship


There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.


Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.

The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence
He said, You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence.
The fence will never be the same.

When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can't put a knife in a man and draw it out without leaving a wound in his body. It won't matter how many times you say 'I'm sorry', the wound is still there. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.


Friends are very rare jewels, indeed.
They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear,
they share words of praise and they always open their hearts to us.
A friend just opened his heart and shared with me yesterday on the passing on of a mutual friend. His words were simple .....
"Remember, there is always a gift. Find out what he needed you to know and to learn, or quality to develop. Then he would have fulfilled his part of the contract with you" . Thanks!!!!!

Please forgive me if I have ever left a hole

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